it is often more rational to be irrational
???
i know.
but it is simple
some people want to act extremely rational
all the time
while they forget
that deep inside
we are all irrational
therefore
being irrational (sometimes) is the most rational thing to do.
???
jujt imagine:
you are walking down the street and someone puts a gun to your head
and asks for you money
('pénzt vagy életet...majdnem lenni vagy nemlenni jellegű dilemma)
what do you do?
well, thinking rational you say
no, i wont give you anything and hey,
i've got a gun too so if you shoot me, i'll shoot you and we will both be dead.
but:
what if the person putting the gun to your head
is a crazy idiot (or acts like) totally out of control (so it seems to you);
in this case you are more likely to say:
okay, okay, i'll give you all i have, just calm down, keep calm.
why?
because your reason concludes that he wont care about his life
so threatening back is not going to save you.
he acts irrational(crazy) which in this case is the most rational behaviour ...
after all, he wants to scare you and get what he wants.
...
i wonder if people (especially women) use such irrational behaviours
in a rational way in order to get what they want;
i also wonder if im being irrational
when i rationally decide
not to act irrational
and i also wonder (feeling confused and ashamed)
why is it, that wanting to be rational(that is in control)
has this boomerang effect on me
and my behavior
that all of a sudden
(eg. when my reason is blurred due to alcoooool)
becomes irrational
(violent, hysteric...)
which is the real me?
2 comments:
It depends on your viewpoint. However every people is pink inside.
Fantastic game to peep things of mind and world but... If you would like to watch you will need a rock or a mountain castle. Every world borns at a fix point. When you choose one and care that your life will grow and blossom.
Do not to risk getting entangled in circles of your own mind. There is a clean sky above point of views.
To endlesseye:
The pink isnide my has been crushed so severly im afraid the view will never be...(here i've entered a circle and strating from 'black'=> 'unclear' => A.Morrisette's Everything=> arriving to):'like before'.
I think many of my problems arise from wanting to be like i was before those things that have crushed me...whereas i should just learn to enjoy that people grow even through big disasters.
Fixed points...in the past year i have had four of them: two negatives (like death and refusal) and two positives (acceptance and backing up).it more or less kept me balanced...but the sky still needs to clear up:)
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