Last night - Szóda, then Szimpla: catching up with some friends -we end up talking about female behaviour. For the nth time I have to realize - and sadly admit - that my city may seem Paradise to any men, it is not other then a microcosm of sluts to me.
Why are we - and this 'we' often contains me, for different behaviour is often ignored, looked over, or at least noted as 'ah well, yeah, she is a little harder to get, but that'll pass'- ... why are WE(=Hungarian women) so easy to get?
Let me summerize all theories I've heard as explanation/excuse ect. over the years:
We are simple bitchier then women of other nations. (Original version coming from Á. if i recall it correctly and goes as follows: Tutti uomini son stronzi e tutte donne son puttane. Uomini italiani son un po piú stronzi dell'altri, donne ungherese son un po piú puttene che l'ltre. => per questo si trovano molto bene insieme.)
We are not used to men being straight-forward-charming-romantic-casanovas => therefall we are doomed to fail in their arms.
Or: may it be simply that women in this city of 'paradise' do not give a shit about relationships based on emotions (rather than lust)?
As for me..i keep trying not to strive for an explanation. I try not to give a damn if someone puts me in the same box (oh, com'on im not so bad looking+im hungarian => i will surely not be faithful to any man for longer than the first few months of a relationship). Maybe they are right somewhere. Maybe i shouldnt be... but..after all...it is easier to swallow being mistaken for a slut then my own spit landing on my face.
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